Talk about it now!!!              Dear engaged couples,talk about each other sexual experiences,preferences and fantasies now before you enter marriage.               It is not after marriage that you should be discovering that he likes certain weird styles or she has some strange fantasies,then u run to your pastor or like me say"help,my husband is crazy" or" help there is nothing I do my wife body doesn't move,you should have discovered it before marriage through personal discussion and counselling sessions and decides whether you can tolerate such or not.                             Visiting exotic restaurant is awesome,have fun!! but talk about the important things too ,of which sexual preferences and believing system is key.Never marry someone u don't know their virtues about sex,it had broken many homes and led to extramarital affairs.